Described the "falling apart" component of the remodeling process for 20 male incest offenders (aged 26-66 yrs). Ss completed in-depth interviews and were observed during group therapy. An analysis of Ss' court documents, sexual history, treatment assignments, and therapy sessions was also conducted. Falling apart, a dynamic multifaceted process, occurred first when Ss were discovered and they were forced to face the emotional and physical consequences of their actions. Ss' survival strategies influenced the intensity of falling apart, both constructively and destructively. Many Ss felt better about themselves by taking full responsibility for the abuse or receiving the support of family and friends. Destructive strategies included escaping, rationalizing the abuse, or blaming others. The intensity of falling apart was less severe among Ss who had received crisis counseling or who worked with nonjudgmental mental-health professionals. (PsycINFO Database Record (c) 2018 APA, all rights reserved)